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Saturday, February 23, 2013

Touchy Feely?

Why must we continue using the words "touchy feely" to dismiss the very thing that can sustain desired results on a team?  These words are still used to describe leadership and team development efforts despite the findings that high emotional intelligence correlates to bigger salaries, innovation and sustainable business results. Strong working relationships actually reduce stress and improve productivity so why do we minimize the importance of human connection at work?

Is because we:
  • Ignore or fear our own emotions?
  • Enjoy zingers (humor at the expense of others)?
  • Have experienced ineffective or poorly run team building events?
  • Find it is easier to focus on tasks than people?
  • Need a lot of personal space?
  • Believe there is no place for emotions at work?
  • Experience discomfort or embarrassment around people?
  • Fear the reactions of others?
  • Believe vulnerability is a weakness?

Make the time to explore your own thinking about human connection in the workplace and notice what beliefs, assumptions, stories or mindsets help or hinder your achievement. 

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